Have you ever heard that old adage that goes something along the lines of, “Show me your friends, I’ll tell you who you are”? Today on Part of the Pack, I’m introducing you to my best friend, Holly Conti. She is one of the most accepting, non-judgmental, empathetic, and kind humans I know. She’s my compass in life, my first phone call for just about every situation, and one of the sweetest souls you’ll meet. I fully believe that people come into your life for a reason, and this lady has changed mine for the better in more ways than I can count.

The reason I asked her to be a Part of the Pack today, is to share a ritual we have done every year since we met. Just before the New Year, we take inventory of the past 365 days, and make plans for what we hope to accomplish in the year ahead. We share our personal goals so that we can help one another achieve them, and remind each other of the intentions we set in case we get off course. It has been the most impactful way to set goals, support each other as friends, and also hold ourselves accountable. We’ve done this over the phone, through emails and google docs, and now, sharing this together over Zoom. Our hope is that this will inspire you to connect with an old friend who can serve as your “person” in the New Year!

2021 Intentions

I love that when I asked Holly what her word is for 2021, she chose “audacity”. It felt like she was looking at 2020 and saying, I see what you threw my way, and not only can I handle it, I am ready to be bold and take big risks in the New Year.

For me, if I had to choose one word for 2021, it would be eudaemonia -the act of human flourishment. This is something I want to truly hone in on in the year ahead. Staying present to find simple joy triggers throughout the day, working to stay healthy, and helping myself and those around me seek all roads to happiness.

What will you choose for your word of the year? I would love to hear in the comments below!

New Year Nuggets & Resources

For my friends who share a love for all things enneagram. This was a quick and easy read – and spot on! What Your New Year’s Resolution Should Be Based on Your Enneagram.

I loved these – 55+ Achievable New Year’s Resolutions for Healthier and Happier Living.

The concept of intention. I always revisit this idea when I think about fresh starts and new goals.

Resolutions for couples – especially the first and last suggestions.

7 Things Mindful People Do Differently. An oldie but a goodie!

See more from Holly

Holly Conti helps women leaders shine at Full Swing PR, and you can see more from her at @fullswingpr and @_hollyconti.

I so hope you enjoyed meeting my best pal, and that you were able to find a gem or two to take into the New Year. I can't tell you how much I appreciated Holly's honest reflection and authentic responses. If you need someone to cheer you on, we're here for you. We wish you health, happiness, and big hugs for more love and laughter in 2021!